Dreams and Sleep

My Dead Grandma Talks To Me In My Dreams

I am really in need of some guidance. My Grandma died about 8 years ago and we were very close and when she died I started to dream about her.

Over the years I have had all sorts of dreams about her a lot of them have been that she is happy where she is and that we should not be sad that she has gone.

One bad dream that I had was that I kept having to watch her die over and over again that was probably the worst one up until the dream I had last night.

About a month or two ago I found out from my mum that my grandma was repeatedly raped by my grandfather, I have no idea how long this went on for, but I do know that only a 3 people know about this and I am one of them. This really upset me as we were really close and she told me things that she didn’t tell anyone else.

Any way last night I had a dream that we were at her old flat there was no furniture around and it was just me and her. She looked so scared, she even told me that she was too frightened to leave him, but she was also scared that he would do to me what he did to her.

She really was terrified and I don’t think I will ever get over the look on her face. Then we were on a boat going on holiday and I could see the way my grandfather was looking at me and she could see it too. She pulled me into a quite room and told me that I needed to get away because he was going to rape me too.

I have no idea what I’m going to do?

Asked by Lisa Tennant

One reply on “My Dead Grandma Talks To Me In My Dreams”

Hi Lisa,

How old are you, and how old is your grandfather and would he be physically strong enough to do that to you now? Do you know how to defend yourself against men who try this .. if not, go and learn – not because of your grandfather, but just because its good to be able to take care of ourselves.

As for your grandmother .. just to make sure she’s crossed into heaven – ask your angels for help. The words I use would be –

“Archangel Michael, please ‘find’ my grandmother (say her full name if you know it) and ‘take’ her into healing”.

If she is a ghost, still living in the nightmare of her experiences, that will fix the situation and you can go back to dreaming about her being happy.

The dreams that started after you were told about your grandmother’s experiences might simply be a reaction to the pain you feel for her since finding out about what was happening. Our minds will do this, particularly if it is one of the fears you carry in this lifetime to set yourself free from. They could also come from your own guilt, because you didn’t know she was being hurt, even though both of you were very close. Some things the older generations simply do not talk about. That being said, before you worry about yourself being raped, did your mother also experience this? She might not want to talk about it either, but you could ask, if you haven’t already.

It doesn’t matter what blood relationship you have with a person that wants to harm you .. if you can stop them, stop them. We are not supposed to physically harm anyone, but sometimes, to stop ourselves from being hurt, a quick knee where it hurts can really work … and then ring the police.

Love & Peace

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